There are two ways to monger discretely.

1. You can plan ahead to reduce risk, but plans also leave evidence. You reduce your risk by planning or..

2. Monger like a serial killer, wait for an opportunity when there is no witnesses. Please note we mean to wait for an opportunity and jump on it when there is no one watching, for most seasoned traveled mongers, they have set routines.

Rules that protect mongers from getting caught out.

• Always pay – you will get caught if you piss people off (overpaying is best for less problems)
• Do your best not to cause problems
• Use passwords on your phone and take precautions
• Be aware of credit card payments and what they will come up as – dating apps, hotels, bars
• Never lie about your rough location
• Do not take videos/pictures or save them
• Always deny it if you are caught red-handed – never confess because you feel guilty, you are ruining a relationship forever
• Remember, it’s your duty to make an effort to keep your relationship going.
• Never monger in your own house or family house – try to be a moving target
• Never go home right after mongering – perfume, makeup, clothes on the wrong way or hair. (need to check)
• Keep any text messages to a minimum, elite mongers tend to message only about arrangement location and time, Keep the messages locked away. Delete all the messages often.  
• Avoid relationships – that’s cheating
• Only talk about mongering to white belts or above
• Use hats, grey tops, sunglasses, and hide vehicles when you are sneaking into hotels
• plan tomorrows lady today, so you don’t make desperate choices
• learn more languages, so you can plan remotely – easier to avoid the walk of shame
• The less you talk to the lady, the less likely that she will remember you, this is the best trick in the book, she wont remember you if you barely tell her anything personal, and I don’t mean be weird and not talk at all, but less information like age, name, where you are from, there is anchors.