Learn Mongering Language and Acronyms – The Ultimate Mongering Terminology and Glossary.

Common adult industry sex terms, abbreviations, codes, codewords, terminology, acronyms, lingo, and glossary. What does this mean, what is the definition of, as defined in the dictionary, and what do the letters stand for:

AAMP = Apartment Asian Massage Parlor. Based in a residential apartment instead of a commercial storefront.
ABC = american born chinese
ABJ = american born japanese
Agency = a company that manages calls, bookings, and advertising for a group of escorts.
AMP = Asian Massage Parlor
analingus = licking anus
Asian = analingus
Asian Cowgirl = girl on top, squatting
ASP = Adult Service Provider, or alt.sex.prostitution newsgroup
ATF = all time favorite
ATM = ass to mouth = penis, toy, finger goes from ass to mouth.
attempts = trying to Fun
Aunt Flo = menstruation, period
B&S = bait and switch = person who shows up is a different one than advertised
babyback = petite, young, attractive Asian
balloons = breast implants
BB = bareback = without condom
BJ = *job = oral sex = fellatio
BBBJ = bare back * job = BJ without condom
BBBJTC = bare back * job to completion (in mouth)
BBBJTCIM = bare back * job to completion in mouth
BBBJTCNQNS = bare back * job to completion, no quit, no spit
BBBJTCWS = bare back * job to completion with swallow
BBBJWF = bare back * job with facial
BBFS = bare back sex
BBW = big beautiful woman
BCD = behind closed doors
BDSM = bondage, discipline, sado-masochism.
BF = boy friend
BFE = boy friend experience
birdwatching = BBBJTCWS
BLS = ball licking and sucking
Blue Jay = * job
blue pill = Viagra
BSB = bus stop babe
butter face = everything looks good, but her face
BTW = by the way
cash and dash = ROB who takes your money and runs
CBJ = covered * job = BJ with condom
CC Rider = full service provider costing $200 or less
CD = cross dresser
CDS = covered doggy style
CFS = covered full service = Sex with condom
CG = cowgirl = girl on top facing you
CH = Crazy Horse, SF Strip Club
CIM = cum in mouth
CL = craigslist.org
CMD = carpet matches drapes, typically a natural blonde
CMT = Certified Massage Therapist. A professional masseuse.
Cowgirl = CG = girl on top facing you
cover = condom
cruising = driving around, looking for streetwalkers
cups of coffee = releases = Funs
DATO = dining at the o = analingus
DATY = dining at the y = cunnilingus
DDP = double digit penetration, kitty and anus
Dodge = streetwalker stroll: Mission Blvd, between A St and 14th St, in Hayward, CA
Doggie = man behind girl, girl on hands and knees
donation = payment
Doubles = A threesome with two girls and you
DDE = doesn’t do extras (PS only)
DDG = drop dead gorgeous
DFK = deep french kissing, open mouth with tongue
DIY = do it yourself (masturbation)
DP = double penetration, two guys on one girl
DT = deep throat, entire length of penis taken in mouth
ECR = el camino real
EOM = end of message. No text in message body.
escort = a temporary companion for hire
facial = cumming on partner’s face
FBSM = full body sensual massage
fire and ice = a *job switching between hot tea and ice
FIV = finger in vagina
FKK = Frei K?rper Kultur. German brothel / nudist club.
FOB = fresh off the boat. Asian immigrant recently arrived in the US.
FOV = finger outside vagina
French = BJ
French Kiss = Kissing with tongue insertion
FS = full service = BJ + Sex
Get Brain = * job
Get Comfortable = get completely naked
GIRLFRIEND = girlfriend experience. Typically BBBJ, CFS, DFK, DATY, and MSOG
GG = Golden Gypsy. defunct, famous Berkeley massage parlor
GND = girl next door
Greek = anal sex, back door
GS = golden shower = urination play
GSM = g-spot massage
happy ending = A handjob (usually) or *job after your massage
hardwood floors = clean shaven kitty
Hat = condom
HDH = high dollar hottie
HJ = hand job = a manual / hand release
HH = half hour
HM = high mileage
HME = honeymoon experience, lapdog heaven
HWP = height and weight proportionate
hooker = escort
IMHO = in my humble opinion
interpreter = condom
Italian = penis rubbing between butt cheeks
ISO = in search of
kitty = vagina
Lapdog = person who worships providers to excess.
LDL = low dollar looker (opposite of HDH)
LE = ellie = law enforcement
LK = light kissing, closed mouth
LOS = land of smiles = Thailand
mamasan = female manager of a massage parlor
MBOT = Mitchell Brothers O’Farrell Theatre, SF Strip Club
MBR = multiple bell ringing = MSOG
MILF = mom I’d like to f-ck
Mish = missionary position, or the SF Mission District
Missionary = man on top, girl on back
mohawk = thin rectangular strip of pubic hair
MP = massage parlor
MP = multiple pops = multiple releases
MSC = Market Street Cinema, SF Strip Club
MSOG = multiple shots on goal = multiple releases
NCT = New Century Theatre, SF Strip Club
non-pro = not a professional provider
NP = no problem
NSA = no strings attached
OWO = oral without condom
OWOTC = oral without condom to completion
papasan = male manager of a massage parlor
party hat = condom
PIV = penis in vagina
PL = Pathetic Loser
PO = phone operator (for making appointments)
PS = private show (Dance)
PSE = Porn Star Experience
PV = private viewing (Dance)
RA = relaxation assistant
raincoat = condom
RB = myredbook.com
rimming = analingus
RMP = Russian Massage Parlor
ROB = Rip Off Bitch
Reverse cowgirl = RCG = girl on top facing away
Reverse massage = you massage her
Roman shower = vomit play
RPG = role playing games
Russian = penis rubbing between breasts = Pearl Necklace = titty fuck
SC = Strip Club
self-service = you masturbate
SF = San Francisco
shill = an insider posing as a satisfied customer
SO = significant other
SOG = shot on goal = one release
SOMF = sat on my face
south of the border = gential region
southern france = BBBJ
SP = Service Provider
SPA = streetwalker stroll: San Pablo Avenue in Oakland, CA
spanish = ATM = ass to mouth
spinner = very petite, thin girl
STD = sexually transmitted disease
stroll = path frequented by street walkers
SW = street walker
TAMP = Therapeutic Asian Massage Parlor
teabag = man squats and dips balls in partner’s mouth
TG = transgender
TGTBT = too good to be true
Tina = crystal meth
TJ = Tijuana
TL = Tenderloin district, San Francisco. between Van Ness Ave, Post St, Taylor St, and Golden Gate Ave
TLD = topless lap dance
tossing salad = analingus
Troll = rude and hideous PL
Trolling = Posting thinly disguised ads in a discussion forum
TOFTT = Take one for the team. In reference to a new, non-reviewed provider.
TS = transexual
TUMA = tongue up my ass
TV = transvestite
UTF = Untranslated French = BBBJ
UTR = under the radar
WTF = What the fuck? (I’m rather surprised by this)
XOXO = Kisses & Hugs
YMMV = Your mileage may vary. Your service level could be different than reported by others. Applies to everyone, some more so than others.
1/2 and 1/2 = half and half = oral sex + full service
411 = seeking information
420 = 4:20 = marijuana
69 = two people giving each other oral sex at the same time
$ = $100
$$ = $200
$$$ = $300
$$$.5 = $350 (get it?) incall = You go to her place, or a place she designates.
Outcall = She comes to your place, home, hotel room.
two call system = For incall locations. Your first call is to set up the time and get the general directions on where to park. Your second call is made when you arrive to get the specific address / room number( Which is very common)

69: Sex position in which the sexual partners lay head to toe and mutually perform oral sex on each other.

A-level: Anal sex (also known as greek)

ATM: Ass to mouth, anal sex immediately followed by oral

AR: Anal rimming refers to licking of the the anal area

BBS: Bare back sex, vaginal or anal sex without a condom

BBBJ: Bare back blow job, oral sex without a condom

BBBJTC: Bare back blow job to completion

BBW: Big beautiful woman, refers to women who are voluptuous or curvaceous

B & D: Bondage and discipline

BDSM: Bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism, masochism, describes a wide range of activities – always get more information

Bondage: Refers to activities involving tying up or restraining of one partner

BJ: Blow job, oral sex on a penis; fellatio

BJTC: Blow job to completion, giving oral sex until the client cums; with or without a condom

BLS: Ball licking and sucking

BS: Body slide. A service provider slides their naked body over the client’s, often with the aid of oil or gel

CBJ: Covered blow job refers to oral sex with a condom

CBT: Cock and ball torture, a BDSM sexual activity that involves torture or inflicting pain on genitals

CD: Cross dressing, may involve client or service provider dressing as a different gender during a booking, could also include service provider “teaching” client how to play a particular gender role

CIM: Cum in mouth, refers to cumming in a service provider’s mouth without a condom

CIMWS: Cum in mouth with swallowing

COF / COB: Cum on face/cum on breasts/cum on body; pulling the penis out of someone’s mouth/vagina/arse and cumming over chest, face, back, etc

DATY: Dining at the ‘Y’, oral sex on a vulva (the outer part of the vagina); cunnilingus

DATO: See ‘rimming’

DP: Double penetration, either penetrating two orifices at once which may include two people, or penetration of one orifice with two things. These acts could include the mouth, vagina and/or anus

DDP: Double digit penetration, one finger in vagina, the other in anus

DFK: Deep french kissing, passionate kissing with tongues

DT: Deep throat, taking the entire length of a penis in one’s mouth during oral sex

Facial: Ejaculating on a face

FE: Female ejaculation, also known as squirting or g-spot ejaculation. The ejaculation of fluid from the urethra.

Filming: Filming or recording of a sexual act

Fire and ice: Refers to applying hot and cold sensations, either directly to the genitals or via the mouth during oral sex. For example, switching between hot and cold sensations such as hot tea and an ice cube. This can be part of a CBT experience.

Fisting: Penetration of a whole hand inside the vagina or anus

FK: French kissing

Foot fetish: A sexual desire and gratification focused on feet or shoes, may involve a foot job or kissing and licking of toes

Foot job: Similar to a hand job but performed with feet, usually with oil or lube stroking a penis between the arches of two feet either as foreplay or until completion

French: Oral sex

FS: Full service, usually just means ‘intercourse’, but some clients or establishments might be referring to a ‘complete’ service, including massage, oral and sex

Gagging: Gagging or choking on an erect penis or sometimes fingers

GFE: Girlfriend experience,acting like a girlfriend; sensual, friendly, cuddly. May include services such as sex, french kissing, mutual oral sex. Inclusions of the service may vary between providers.

Greek: Anal sex

GS: Golden shower, urinating on body or in mouth

Happy ending: Hand job after massage

HJ: Hand Job, hand relief; using your hand to masturbate the client

Italian: Rubbing penis between buttocks

LK: Light kissing

MILF: Mother I’d like to fuck. Describes a sexually attractive woman, usually several years older than the person using the term

MFF: Male Female Female, threesome involving one male and two females

MMF: Male Male Female, threesome involving two males and one female

Mutual French: Both parties give and reciprocate oral sex. If done at the same time is called ‘69’

Mutual Natural French: Both parties give and receive unprotected oral sex

MSOG: Multiple shots on goal refers to a client orgasming multiple times within a booking

NSA: No strings attached, no serious relationships, just a hook-up

OWO: Oral with out, a blow job without a condom

Pegging: Using a strap on dildo to have anal sex with a partner

PSE: Porn star experience, a sexual encounter that is similar to what you would see in a mainstream pornographic film. Usually involves a range of sexual positions, louder moaning, dirty talk, deep throating/gagging and light spanking. The inclusions of a PSE vary between service providers.

R&T: Rub and tug, massage with hand relief

Rimming: Licking around the the anus

Russian: Rubbing the penis between breasts, sometimes until climax (also known as Spanish)

Snowballing: The act of transferring semen or cum from one person’s mouth to another

Spanish: Rubbing the penis between breasts, sometimes until climax (also known as Russian)

Squirting: Also known as female ejaculation or g-spot ejaculation. The  ejaculation of fluid from the urethra.

Strap on: A dildo designed to be worn, usually with a harness, to penetrate a sexual partner

Strip tease: An erotic dance where the service provider undresses for the client in a teasing fashion

Tea bagging: Placing balls in the mouth or on the face of a partner

Toy show: A masturbation show using sex toys including vibrators

Tromboning: An act where the service provider kneels behind the client and licks their anus while masturbating their erect penis

TTM: Testicular tongue massage

Water sports: See golden shower, but also can involve many sexual activities that involve urine

Don’t assume that you and the client have the same understanding of abbreviations. It’s a good idea to confirm the details, eg. ‘Did you want AR on me, or on you?’, or ‘I do offer oral to completion, but only with a condom’, before agreeing to the service.


AAMP Apartment Asian Massage Parlor, a residential apartment instead of a commercial storefront usually where sex acts can be purchased
AAMP or AMP Asian-American Massage Parlor (more politically correct acronym)
ABC American born Chinese
ABJ American born Japanese
AFF Adult Friend Finder (a popular USA dating website)
AFF Asian Friend Finder (a popular Asian dating website)
Agency a business/company that handles bookings, advertising, screening, and phone calls for escorts
Aircon BBBJ + Hacks (a sweet mint) Example: When the masseuse asks, “want aircon?” if yes, she puts one ‘hacks sweet’ into her mouth and start giving a blow job
Amazon A masculine female, tall and strong
AMP Asian Massage Parlor
Analingus licking anus, anal rimming (Oral stimulation of anus)
Anal Rimming Oral stimulation of anus
AR Anal Rimming (Oral stimulation of anus)
Around the world Analingus and Fellatio
Asian Cowgirl Girl on top, squatting
AR Ass Rim, Anal Rimming
ASP Adult Service Provider
ATF All Time Favorite
ATM Ass To Mouth
Aunt Flo Menstruation
AVN Adult Video News/Awards, a porn industry convention and and awards show


Babyback Petite, young, attractive Asian
Backpage An online database where escorts post their ads, generally separated by region, and clients can “shop” for an escort, typically faster service, lower prices, and many of the prostitutes are trafficked and/or managed by pimps
Bad Boy Report A website where providers can report a rip-off client, dangerous client, a stalker, etc.
Bait and Switch Person who shows up is a different one than advertised
Baja Sur Genitals From the spanish “the low south”
Balloons Breast implants
Bareback Sex without condom
Barracuda A professional prostitute who’s only purpose is to separate you from your money as quickly as possible, preferably without giving you anything in return
BBBJ Bare Back Blow Job (oral sex without condom)
BBBJTC Bare Back Blow Job to Completion (oral sex to orgasm)
BBBJNQNS Bare Back Blow Job No Quit No Spit
BBBJTCWS Bare Back Blow Job to Completion with Swallowing
BBBJWF Bare Back Blow Job With Facial
BBFS Bare Back Full Service (sex without condom)
BBS Barber Shop
BBW Big Beautiful Woman
BCD Behind Closed Doors
BDSM Bondage, Discipline, Sado-Masochism.
Beret A condom.
Beso Negro Anal Rimming
BF Boy Friend
BFA Big Fat Ass
BFE Boy Friend Experience
BGR Boy-Girl-Relationship
BGB Boy-girl-boy, as is a threesome with two guys and one girl
BJ Blow Job (oral sex on a man)
BL Body Lick
Blackhole Anus
BLS Ball Licking and Sucking
Blue Pill Viagra
Blue Steel Viagra
Boutique Agency An agency that typically does not use fake pictures, upsell, or rip guys off, more catered to repeat customers
Brothel A business establishment where men can stop in and pay for a sexual service
Brothel Girl prostitute who works out of a brothel
Brown Shower Defecation on your partner
BS Body slide Service where woman may slide her body on yours using oil, or Nuru
BS Body Scrub
BSD Big Swinging Dick
BSW Black Street Walker
BTW By the Way
Butterface Everything looks good, but her face


Call Agency An agency that typically employs hundreds or even thousands of escorts, who call-in and call-off, and a client can call and usually have an escort delivered to him within an hour or so
Call Girl Outcall provider usually implies call type agency
Cash and Dash takes the money and runs
Casino Girl  prostitute who hangs out at the bar in the casino soliciting
CBJ Covered Blow Job (oral sex with a condom)
CC Roman Numeral for 200. Roman numerals sometimes used for fees. (Roman Numeral converter)
CC Credit Card
CC Rider Full service provider costing $200 or less
CCL Concentration Camp Look
CD Cross-dresser: transvestite, a person, and especially a male who adopts the dress and often the behavior typical of the opposite sex especially for purposes of emotional or sexual gratification
CDS Covered Doggy Style
CFF Chinese Friend Finder (a popular dating website)
CFM Come Fuck Me, usually refer to the look of a person
CFS Covered Full Service (sex with condom)
CG Call Girls, prostitute who works for a call agency
CG Casino Girls, prostitute who hangs out at the bar in the casino soliciting
CG Club Girls, prostitute who works out of a strip club
CH Crazy Horse, SF Strip Club, LV strip club
Chump A man who gives his money and/or his attention to women without getting any pussy in return. Largely a phenomenon experienced by American men when dating American women. Don’t be a chump!
CIM Cum in Mouth
City Vibe An online database where escorts pay to post their ads, generally separated by region, and clients can “shop” for an escort
Civilian A woman who makes herself available for sexual encounters but not for financial gain. May be less discreet than a provider and more interested in a relationship
CL Craigslist, a popular classified ad website where escorts have been known to advertise and otherwise promote their availability
Client A person who purchases  or receives prostitution services from a provider
Clockwatcher A term for a provider who counts the minutes until the session is over
Club Girl prostitute who works out of a strip club
CMD Carpet Matches Drapes (typically a natural blonde)
CMP Chinese Massage Parlor
CMT Certified Massage Therapist. A professional masseuse
COB Cum on Breast
COF Cum on Face
Collar and Cuffs match Pubic hair matches natural hair-color (redheads, blondes)
Completion Orgasm e.g. She gave a bareback blowjob to completion
Completo Spanish for “complete”, usually meaning with or including anal sex
Courtesan Prostitute who engages in longer dates, accompanies clients on trips, overnights, and who caters to his fantasies through fantasies
Cover Condom
Covered Various measures, such as the use of condoms or dental dams, are taken to avoid diseases (as AIDS) transmitted by sexual contact. (e.g. Covered Blow Job means a condom was used)
CHHFS Covered Half Hour Full Service
CG Cowgirl girl on top facing you
Craigslist A popular classified ad website where escorts have been known to advertise and otherwise promote their availability
Crime scene action Sexual activity during her period
Cruising Looking for prostitutes while driving
Cups of Coffee How many times a release or orgasm happened


Dance and Dash A rip-off. She shows up, takes your money, doesn’t provide, might offer to “dance”, and leaves
Date A session with a prostitute
Date-Check A third party website that acts as a pre-screening service, but is more like a classifieds for providers and clients to connect and network
DATO Dining at the O, Anilingus, oral stimulation of the anus
DATY Dining at the Y (Performing oral sex on a woman)
DDE Doesn’t Do Extras (PS only)
DDF Drug and Disease Free
DDG Drop Dead Gorgeous
DDP Double Digit Penetration (pussy and anus), or just DP
Deep Throat where the whole length of the penis is “swallowed”
Defender A poster who defends or “comes to the rescue” of a provider who has been reviewed poorly, regardless of whether the review is accurate
Deposit A provider requires an upfront payment in advance of a session
DFE Dead Fish Experience
DFF Dead Fish Fuck
DFK Deep French Kissing
DIY Do It Yourself (masturbation)
Doggie Man behind girl, girl on hands and knees
Doggie Style Man behind girl, girl on hands and knees
Donation Payment to a provider
Doubles A threesome with two girls and you
DP Double Penetration
DP Digital penetration
DS Doggy Style
DSL Dick Sucking Lips
DT Dining at the Toes
DT Deep Throat
Dude street lingo for pimp
Dungeon A place where dominatrices and clients or just plain civilian people can go to use a variety of BDSM sex apparatuses


ECCIE a review board for clients and providers to screen and connect with one another
Ed Zachary disease A woman with an unattractive face
Ellie LE, Law Enforcement
EMA Extra-Marital-Affairs. Affairs after marriage
EMP European Massage Parlor (white girls)
Enhancements Breast implants, butt implants, lip implants
Envelope Often cash payments for a provider are placed in an envelope. Rather than handing her cash directly, or discussing money, the envelope is left in a conspicuous location for the provider to pick up as she leaves (outcall), or after the hobbyist leaves (incall)
EOM End Of Message
Eros An online database where escorts pay to post their ads, generally separated by region, and clients can “shop” for an escort
Escort A woman who is paid for her companionship, a temporary companion for hire
Escort Mall An online database where escorts pay to post their ads, generally separated by region, and clients can “shop” for an escort


Face painting Man ejaculates on woman’s face
Facial Cumming on partner’s face
FBSM Full Body Sensual Massage
FFF Refers to the strategy of “Find them, Fuck them, Forget them”
Fire and ice a blowjob switching between hot tea and ice
FIV Finger In Vagina
Five-O A police officer (uniformed or undercover)
FJ Foot job. Stimulation of the penis using feet and toes
FJ Fuck Job
FK French Kiss, French Kissing
FKK Frei Körper Kultur (German brothel / nudist club)
FL Free Lance
Flake Flaky Errant behavior, often used for providers who no-show and/or have scheduling issues
FOB Fresh Off the Boat (Asian immigrant recently arrived in the US)
FOBU Fat-Old-Bald-Ugly
FOTC Fuck Of The Century
FOV Finger Outside Vagina
FR Field Report, Fuck Review
French Oral sex on either party
French Kissing Kissing on mouth with tongue contact
French Without Oral sex without condom
FS Full Service (complete sex)
Full meal deal Full Service, Vaginal intercourse to completion
Full Service Intercourse
FUTB Finger Up The Butt 


GBG Girl-Boy-Girl, as in a threesome with two girls and one guy
Get Comfortable Get completely naked
GDP Garota de Program (working girl, on the program)
GF Girl Friend
GFE Girl Friend Experience, typically BBBJ, CFS, DFK, DATY, and MSOG
GF3 Girl Friend Experience w/all three holes
Glove Condom
GND Girl Next Door
Golden Shower Urinating on your partner, urine play
Greek Anal sex
GRO Guest Relations Officer (The Philippines) Generally refers to women in the employ of night clubs and similar establishments. A polite reference to working girls
GS Golden Shower (urination play)
GSM G-Spot Massage
GV Geschlechtsverkehr = Intercourse (in German)


Half and Half Oral sex followed by intercourse.
Happy ending A handjob (usually) or blowjob after your massage
Hardwood Floors Clean shaven pussy
Hat Condom
HC Health Center
HC High Class
HDH high dollar hottie
HE Happy Ending
Herb Friendly Is open to marijuana use
HH half hour
HHHJ Half Hearted Hand Job
Hidden Charges A provider takes the advertised fee upfront, but midway through the session she asks for more money for more services. (e.g. She might undress and give a massage for the advertised $$, but then ask for an additional $ for French, or $$ for FS, etc.)
Hindu Massage (Argentina) The woman contracts her vaginal muscles during sex to squeeze you to completion.
HJ Hand Job
HM High Mileage
HME Honeymoon Experience (lapdog heaven)
Hobby The patronizing of prostitutes.
Hobbyist A man who visit prostitutes with some frequency, and calls himself a “hobbyist” because seeing prostitutes is his “hobby”
Hooker Prostitute
Hostess Club A lower end strip club where bargaining for sex acts with the dancers is acceptable, and some activities may occur on premises
Hourly A hotel or establishment you can rent by the hour instead of paying for a full night
House An underground brothel, often with trafficked and/or underage women
HR Hand Release (a hand job)
HSW Hispanic Street Walker
HTUMA Her Tongue Up My Ass, a rim job
HWP Height and Weight Proportionate


IMHO In My Humble/Honest Opinion
Independent, Indie An escort who works on her own, without an agency affiliation. The escort manages her own calls, bookings, advertising and finances
IPO Initial public offering: used to denote the public introduction of a new provider, usually via a review
ISO In Search Of
Italian Penis rubbing between butt cheeks


Jack Shack Refers to an establishment (massage parlor, lingerie modeling) that is not usually full service; expect only massage (usually nude or topless) and hand job, but more services might be available
Jimmy Hat A condom
John A man who patronizes prostitutes


Kitty  vagina


Lapdog Person who worships providers to excess
L/A/S Looks/Attitude/Service: A subjective ranking system. Each criteria separately ranked, from lowest (1) to highest (10). Examples: 2/9/8 = Unnattractive, but very friendly and good sex. 10/5/4 = Model material, but a poor attitude, and mediocre sex
Landing Strip Description of pubic hair
LBFM Little Brown Fucking Machine
LC Local Chinese
LCN Latin Chica Network (The chica’s mental telepathy network system, which is faster than any electronic network could ever be, although the data does experience major corruption issues during transmissions)
LDL Low dollar looker (opposite of HDH)
LE Law Enforcement
LEO Law Enforcement Officer
LFK Light French Kissing
Little Blue Helper Viagra
Little Blue Pill Viagra
LK Light Kissing (closed mouth)
LMP Licensed Massage Practitioner
LOL Laugh Out Loud
LOS Land of Smiles (refers to Thailand)
Lot Lizards Prostitutes who operate out of truck stops or other trucker hangouts
LSB Lap Sup Bar (low class bar)
LT Long Time (usually overnight)
L1, L2, L3 UTR Slang for Handjob, blowjob, full service
LTR Long Term Relationship Madame Proprietress of an agency


Mall, Escort Mall A website that advertises many different providers. The providers may be independent or agency, and may or may not be associated with each other, or with the mall
Mamasan Female manager of a massage parlor
Man in a boat little man in a boat Clitoris
Massage Parlor A residential apartment instead of a commercial storefront usually where sex acts can be purchased
MBR Multiple Bell Ringing (MSOG)
Mediterranean Anal sex e.g. “She took me on a trip to the Mediterranean”
Merkin Pubic hair wig
MFF Male-female-female, as in a threesome with one guy and two girls
MFM Male-female-male, as in a threesome with two guys and one girl
MG Massage Girl
MIB Man in blue, law enforcement officer
Mileage A subjective term that describes value for money and/or how accommodating she is. Good mileage usually means she either charges less than average, provides better L/A/S than average, or both
MILF Mother I’d Like to Fuck
Mish Missionary position, man on top during intercourse
Missionary Man on top, girl on back
MJ Massage Job
ML Make Love
ML Massage Lady
MM Man made breasts
Mohawk A thin rectangular strip of pubic hair
Monger Short for W h o r e monger. One who frequents prostitutes
MP Massage Parlor
MP Multiple Pops (multiple releases)
MPA Massage Parlor Attendant
MSOG Multiple Shots on Goal (multiple releases)
Multiple Pops She allows you to have more than 1 orgasm during the session (e.g. more than one or multiple pops allowed)


National Blacklist A website where providers can report a dangerous client and be aware of activities that put providers at risk
NCNS No call, no show for appointment, stood up
Newbie A novice hobbyist or novice provider
NGP Non Genuine Photos
NMG No-Money Guys. Mongers who travel on a strict budget
Nooner A lunch-time or afternoon session, popular with married hobbyists
No-Show Escort or Client never shows up for an appointment, does not contact in advance to cancel or warn
No-Touch No touching allowed. (e.g. No-touch Jack shack, no-touch strip club)
NQBC Non-quitter, but covered. CBJ to completion
NQBS Non-quitter, but spitter. BBBJTC and spits your ejaculate
NQNS Non-quitter, non-spitter. BBBJTC and swallows your ejaculate
NSA No Strings Attached
NURU Nude body rub / slide with oils


Os orgasms
Off-the-clock Activities that occur with a provider that she chooses not to charge for. (e.g. “We had lunch off-the-clock”)
OKP Or-Kui-Poh – It means a Female pimp in Hokkien, a Chinese dialect, but sometimes people use OKP/OKT to describe a supervisory person who will guide you in your selection of girls in a spa
OKT Or-Kui-Tao – It means a Male pimp in Hokkien, a Chinese dialect, but sometimes people use OKP/OKT to describe a supervisory person who will guide you in your selection of girls in a spa
OMFIAMP One Man’s Food Is Another Man’s Poison, (pronounced “Ohm-Fam”)
ONS One Night Stand
OTOH On the Other Hand
Outcall The girl provider comes to you
OutOuted Private, personal information on a hobbyist or provider is made public. e.g. Someone’s real name and address is posted to a public forum
OV Oralverkehr = Oral Sex (in German)
OVN Overnight
OWO Oral With Out a condom
OWOTC Oral Without Condom To Completion


P4P Pay for Play. Refers to the concept of paying for sex
Papasan Male manager of a massage parlor
Party Hat Condom
Pearl Necklace Man ejaculates on woman’s neck and/or chest
PFF Pussy For Free
Pimp A person who controls prostitutes and requires the prostitute to give them most / all their money
Pinay a Philippine Girl
PIV Penis in Vagina
PL Pathetic Loser
PM Private Message sent via the Forum’s Private Message service.
PO Phone Operator
POF Plenty of Fish
Pooner A hobbyist who is immersed in the hobby culture. e.g. He may be very involved with the review boards and/or private exchange of information on providers and the hobby.
Pops, multiple She allows you to have more than 1 orgasm during the session (e.g. more than one or multiple pops allowed)
POS Pussy on the Side
Papers STD tests, example, “I’m clean, I’ll show you my papers, let’s not use condoms”
Preferred 411 A third party date check service where both providers and clients can be screened by the service. Then provide their “handle” to potential clients and providers so they can view likes/dislikes of one another to ensure compatibility and screening him
Price per act More common with streetwalkers and call agencies, girl charges a price per act, a BJ is one price, full service is another price, kissing is a different price, and so on
Prostitution Trading sexual services for items of value or money
Provider Prostitute
PS Private Show (Dance)
PSE Porn Star Experience
Punter British slang for a man who engages in sex with prostitutes.
PV Private Viewing (Dance)
PW Pussy Whipped (A guy controlled by a girl because she gives him sex)


R & T Rub and Tug (a massage followed by a hand job)
RA Relaxation Assistant
Raincoat Condom
RAW Sex without condom
RB myredbook.com (a former review site based in the San Francisco Bay Area, now shut down)
RCA Reverse Cowgirl Anal
Renegade An independent prostitute who doesn’t use a pimps services
REQ Request – Used in the subject line of a post to indicate the body contains a request for information.
REV Review – Used in the subject line of a post to indicate the body contains review of a provider
Reverse Cowgirl Girl on top facing away
Reverse Half and Half Intercourse followed by oral sex to completion
Reverse Massage You massage her
Review A critical evaluation of a provider. May include information on her looks, attitude and service
Review Boards An online database where clients and providers openly chat about prostitution, advertise services, and read specific details about how a date with an escort might go
Reverse Oral The client performs oral sex on the provider
Rimming Analingus
RLD Red Light District
RMP Russian Massage Parlor
ROB Rip Off B i t c h
ROFLMAO Rolling On (the) Floor Laughing My Ass Off
Roman An orgy situation
Roman Shower Vomit play
Roses As in hundred dollar bills, how many roses equals how many hundreds of dollars, for example 400 roses = $400
RPG Role playing games
RSK2 A third party date check service where men can pay for membership, be screened by the service, then give his “handle” to potential providers so she can screen him through the service
RTF Return To Fuck
RTFF Read the Fucking Forum
Russian Penis rubbing between breasts/titty fuck
Russian In Australia Short sex session, aka a “Quickie”


Safe Sexual activity in which various measures, such as the use of condoms or dental dams, are taken to avoid disease (as AIDS) transmitted by sexual contact. e.g. All activities were safe
San Juan Capistrano BBBJTC and she swallows
Sandbag, Sandbagger A subjective term for a review (or reviewer) that misleads the reader by giving unwarranted praise to a provider
Sans Without. e.g. She provided french sans beret = BBBJ
SC Strip Club
Scat Defecation on your partner or feces play
Screening A provider or agency does a pre-session background check on a new client
Seeking Arrangements A classifieds style website that men and women can meet one another for a no-strings-attached type of relationship, usually for money
Self-post A provider or agency poses as a hobbyist, and posts a highly positive review of herself or agency to increase business
Self-Service You masturbate e.g. “It was a self-service jack shack” = no contact with the dancer, but the man can masturbate
Sensual Massage Not usually full service; expect only massage (usually nude or topless) and handjob, but more services might be available
Session Paid time spent with a provider
Sex Worker Catch all phrase sometimes used to describe prostitutes. May also be used in the context of strippers, peep show workers, topless waitresses
SFH Sex for hire
SG Street Girls
Shemale Transexual particularly one who is living as a woman, but hasn’t had SRS. Penis may or may not get erect
Shill An insider posing as a satisfied customer
Shill A hobbyist who writes unwarranted positive reviews in exchange for discounts or special favors from an agency or provider
Shots on goal Shot On Goal (one release/orgasm)
Sixty Nine69 Partners perform oral sex on each other simultaneously
Slam, Slammed An unwarranted harsh review or abusive criticism of a provider
Slixa An online database where escorts pay to post their ads, generally separated by region, and clients can “shop” for an escort
SO Significant Other
SOF Shit on Floor
SOG Shot On Goal (one release/orgasm)
SOMF Sat on my face
SOP Standard Operating Procedure
Soixante neuf 69: Partners perform oral sex on each other simultaneously
South of the Border Genital Region
Southern France BBBJ
SP Service Provider
SPA streetwalker stroll: San Pablo Avenue in Oakland, CA
Spanish ATM Ass to Mouth
Spanish In Australia Penis between breasts
Spinner Very petite, thin girl
Sponge An absorbent item inserted into the vagina during a menstrual cycle
Squirting, Squirter Female ejaculation, a provider who ejaculates
SRS Sexual reassignment surgery
ST Short Time
STD Sexually Transmitted Disease
Sting A female police officer poses as a prostitute to apprehend unsuspecting johns, or a male police officer poses as a john to apprehend unsuspecting prostitutes.
STR Short Term Relationship
Street action Prostitution that is solicited on public streets. Prostitutes (usually on foot) are picked up by Johns in motor vehicles. Sexual acts may occur in the vehicle, or at another agreed upon location
Stripper Slide A provider slides her vagina back and forth across male genitalia uncovered
Stroll Path frequented by street walkers
Sugardaddy.com A classifieds-style website that men (sugar daddies) and women (sugar babbies) can meet one another for a no-strings-attached type of relationship, usually for money
Summer Teeth Her teeth, some are there, some are not
Sunshine, Sunny Without a condom
SW Street Walker
SW Sex Worker
SWOP Sex Workers Outreach Program, a non-profit company that provides services to prostitutes seeking help
Sybian A mechanical sex device that is in the shape of half-barrel with a dildo attachment mounted in the middle
SYT Sweet Young Thing


Take care of business Payment is made to provider. e.g. “She wanted to take care of business first”
TAMP Therapeutic Asian Massage Parlor
TCSS Talk Cock Sing Song
Teabag Man squats and dips balls in partner’s mouth
TER The Erotic Review, a review board for clients and providers to screen and connect with one another
TG Transgender
TGTBT Too Good To Be True
Throne Job Self-service hand job. Refers to an establishment that doesn’t offer FS. The premises will only have a large chair or “throne” for you to sit on and masturbate while the woman dances for you
Tina crystal meth
Tipping required Hidden charges, provider demands more than the advertised price in order to perform, or bargains hard for various services
TLD topless lap dance
TLN Toda La Noche (“All the Night” in Spanish)
TOFTT Take one for the team. In reference to a new, non-reviewed provider
Took one for the team A hobbyist reviews a provider who has no (or scattered) reviews. He was ripped off, or his experience was very poor. Ostensibly, he has helped save other members of the community (the team) from making the same mistake
TOS Take Out Service
Tossing Salad analingus
Translation, translator Condom i.e. “She spoke fluent french without a translator” = BBBJ
Tri-F A devotee to the “Find them, Fuck them, Forget them” strategy
Trick A sex act for money
Trick A man who patronizes prostitutes
Troll Rude and hideous person
Trolling Posting thinly disguised ads in a discussion forum
Trolling The act of driving around looking for a prostitute
TS Table Shower
TS Transexual
TTA Tight Tan Ass
Tuft Description of pubic hair
TUMA Tongue Up My Ass
Turn tricks Prostitution
TV Transvestite
TVSW Transvestite Street Walker
Two Call System For incall locations. Your first call is to set up the time and get the general directions on where to park. Your second call is made when you arrive to get the specific address / room number.


Umbrella Condom
Uncovered Without a condom
Upsell The price changes once she gets in the room
UTR Under The Radar, a provider who doesn’t mass-market advertise


Vet Screen a potential client to make sure they’re legit and safe to see
VFM Value For Money


WAH Wild Ass Humping
Water Sports Urination play
Weeklies Alternative weekly newspapers. These often contain various adult service listings, including massage and escort advertisements. e.g. The Village Voice, San Francisco Bay Guardian, The Stranger. OR A hotel that is rented by the week
WF Wild Fuck
WG Working girl. A prostitute.
WK White Knight A review board poster who defends or “comes to the rescue” of a provider who has been reviewed poorly, regardless of whether the review is accurate.
Whore monger One who habitually patronizes prostitutes. See urbandictionary.com
With With condom
Without Without condom.
WIR Would I Repeat, Would I Return, Would I Recommend
WL Working Lady
WOA Word of Advice
Working girl A prostitute
WSW White Street Walker
WTF What the Fuck?


X Kiss
XOXO Kisses & Hugs


YMMV Your Mileage May Vary, reviews aren’t always consistent, usually depends on how well you “click”

1/2 and 1/2 Half and half, oral sex + full service
411 information, details
420 4:20 friendly open to marijuana use
69 oral sex at the same time, usually facing opposite directions

$$  $200
$$$  $300
$$$$  $400
$$$$$  $500
400 Roses $400


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